How to Get a Shy Guy to Like You

So. This blog is basically just about boys, girls, and stuff like that! This is my first post (so excuse me if it’s really bad, I’m sure I’ll get the hang of it later) so here it goes! The first thing I wanna blog about is shy boys. 

How to get a Shy Guy to Like You: These are the hard ones. You have next to no clue if they like you, right?! Well. They’re most likely not gunna come up to you and start flirting with you just like that! Some things to help with that is if you start dropping these tiny hints. For example: Saying you like his hair, shirt, etc. Any guy likes it when you compliment them. We girls (or you boys reading this) aren’t the only ones who love it when somebody notices something cute about them and then goes out of their way to point it out. That’s right! Guys love it when you do that! Just take care to not do it to often, ya know? You don’t wanna turn into that creepy girl who always stares and compliments them. All. The. Time. Whoa. Look at me. Got of track for a few sentences. Anyways, now that you got the complimenting thing down, move on to the next step. Talking to them or asking them with help. Talk to him! Since he is shy and all, he probably won’t want to make the first move. So it’s up to you! I know right? Ughhh. But we gotta do it for him now don’t we? How do you talk to him you say? Just do it! Maybe when you compliment him you could possibly ask him where he got that shirt you complimented him on today? Or…ask them for help! C’mon. We’ve all dumbed ourselves down at one time or another for a guy. Maybe when you’re in class and you know that he’s great at this subject (since you know, you’ve totally stalked him) play dumb a bit. Just ask if he could help! You should basically know how to right? Hmm. That just gave me an idea for another blog. Anyways, next step! Talk to him through social media. I’m sure he has an email, or a facebook, or something like that. We all know that it’s so much easier to talk to someone over the internet or through text! Much less awkward not to mention too. Just ask him about that hard math question on your homework from today. Then gradually start to talk about your day, life, family, anything remotely interesting, really! After that then you two can swap numbers or plan a date. Better yet, both! Moving on. Ask your friends and see if they know him. If they don’t, oh well! Your amazing charm will do the trick to get him! But if they do, great! Then maybe you could host a party, get your friends to bring him, or maybe just hang out somewhere casual. Or, if those don’t really suit you, then maybe at school when you see him talking to your friends you can bounce right over there and start talking. Great way to make friends! Or if you happen to catch the conversation before (or after) you could join in!  Awesome way to talk to him, plus he probably won’t feel that uncomfortable since he has his friend. Now that you got that down, and you’ve hopefully done at least some of these steps, time to smile! So obvious and easy! Smile. You guys have talked now at least once so go on ahead and do it. He won’t get freaked out by it since you know him at least a little bit. So that’s just about it. If it turns out that he does like you, yay! You got yourself a new boyfriend. If it turns out he doesn’t, that sucks but oh well life moves on. His loss anyways. It won’t be your fault (or mine for that matter) and some people don’t always connect just like that. But I’m sure you two will. *wink*

Don’t

• Flirt with him too much. 
• Flirt with other guys, or he might think that he isn’t special.
• Break that awful touch barrier too quickly. That’ll be a bit creepy.
• Play hard to get. Sure, I mean. You could do it a *tiny* bit, just don’t go overboard with it.
• Kiss him if you two aren’t together! Or worse, if he has a girlfriend. It’ll be awkward if he doesn’t return the feelings. Or maybe he does but that’s not how he wants you guys’ first kiss to be! Either way, don’t do it.

Do

• Make sure he likes you before you ask him out. 
• Make sure he doesn’t have a girlfriend (or boyfriend).
• Make eye contact! Not too much though.
• Smile, smile, smile! Remember it!
• Relax and have fun! No need to get nervous over one boy. 

 

Well, that was my first blogging thingie I ever did. *deep breath* Hope it was helpful! Leave a little comment if it helped and reblog it if you would. Thanks!